There's just something different about you.
You seemed to be glowing.
I can see a difference.
These are a few things that have been said to me in one way or another the past few weeks. If you are like me it is sometimes hard to hear compliments. But I have been humbled by this time and that people can see a marked difference in me. Those who have commented most are my fellow yogis who I had seen on a fairly regular basis this past year. One fellow yogi remarked that I never seemed depressed throughout my 10 month transition it is just that I seem so much happier now. And I never was depressed. I did have moments of hopelessness and who doesn't, but my hopeful attitude outweighed that. I have started to write this post a couple of times and each time I think no I don't know that I want to share this in this way. Do people really care that I received compliments? What sort of lesson is in this. Then this past weekend I received another said compliment and thought that I should share the positive and I do think there is something to learn from this. It feels good to accept these compliments and kind words, it feels nice and it is the truth. I don't know even how to explain it, but I do feel different. I know that I am the same person but I feel lighter. A huge weight that I was carrying around was lifted. Though I had become stronger and figured out ways to carry the weight, to shed myself of it has made a marked difference.
I am really good about noticing when people are having a hard time or something is off. I make a point to reach out to those people, check in and provide support. Because sometimes it is hard for people to reach out and ask for that support. Do I notice when people are having a good day? Do I take time to point out the positive? I'd like to think that I do and now that I really understand what that feels like, I will certainly be very mindful of these interactions. I will point out the good, give compliments and point out the positive changes in people's lives. It feels really good to have people notice when life is good, have others recognize what is working and to validate positive changes. We could all use a little more of this in our lives.
"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around." ~ Leo Buscaglia