I have recently taken a contrary approach. I have some things brewing out on the horizon that as I go about my day to day I have been sharing with others more then I would have typically in the past (I am not going to share here in any detail because it is still very much a potential and this is very much a public space). I share and more importantly I share that I am excited. In the past it would be as if this excitement would 'jinx' the potential opportunity, that somehow by sharing this with other people I would be tempting fate and then the outcome would not be in my favor.
I do know that part of why I would not let myself get too excited and almost minimize the potential opportunity's importance has to do with self preservation. So if I don't get asked out on that date, win the big award or get the dream job I get to say I did not really want it anyway. But if I truly believe that what you put out into the universe comes back to you then why should I not show and share my excitement. This makes the potential opportunity more of a reality and my approach to it more authentic. Imagine the difference a job interview could be if you truly presented your authentic self to those who are interviewing you? I can certainly recall having to fake enthusiasm for jobs I have interviewed for before but if it is something that I am really excited for why not let that come through. Wouldn't you want to hire someone who was really excited about the job you were offering? Could that person even be, experience aside, a more ideal candidate.
I once was told after I was hired for a job that one of the reasons I was chosen was because they wanted to get to know the person that my references spoke about and that when I interviewed they did not see all that they had heard about. I did not bring my full authentic self to that process, I needed a job and had a lot on the line, so held back because I didn't want to be "too much of me", too enthusiastic. I knew I could be overwhelming at times, though with age I have learned to reign that in a lot. Apparently in that situation it would have certainly served me better to be true to myself. Though I am eternally grateful to my references for being able to bring out what I suppressed, I learned a lot from this process which occurred almost 9 years ago. Yet through the years I have still held back. These days I am trying something different, life has been different and I am different.
So maybe now instead of thinking that I will jinx 'it' by talking about 'it' maybe not talking about 'it' is the real jinx. I'll let you know how that turns out!
"What you think is what you become" ~ Buddha